Parenting

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SupCo ruling was right for Iowa’s kids

Iowa Supreme Court rules that both married lesbian partners should be named on birth certificates 2

  Last week’s state Supreme Court ruling — that both spouses in a lesbian marriage should be listed on a child’s birth certificate — wasn’t just the only legally logical way the court could have come down on the issue, although it is that. And please don’t write to tell me all about how babies [...]

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Later is right now

When you are a child, the worst thing a parent can tell you is “Maybe later.” “Mom, will you play tea party with me?” “Maybe later.” “Dad, want to play Monopoly?” “Maybe later.” This popped into my mind as my kids asked me if we could bake Christmas cookies last week. Their homework wasn’t finished, [...]

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A  speed camera on a road sign north of the H Avenue NE interchange on Interstate 380 in Cedar Rapids. (Jim Slosiarek/The Gazette)

A new twist in the camera debate 20

  I  am fascinated by the letter war that’s erupted in response to a dad who says he was so opposed to Cedar Rapids’ speed cameras that he paid his daughter’s ticket when she got one on the condition that she stay away from downtown. It’s an odd eddy in the round-and-round we’ve had about [...]

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Parent-Child cell phone debate continues

Parents can exert a measure of control over their child’s mobile phone use by limiting use, checking its contents and using it to monitor the whereabouts of their offspring. However, with a few exceptions, these activities by parents do not seem to impact patterns of cell phone use by teens, according to Iowa State University [...]

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Studies – SpongeBob, Mondays Plague our Society 5

  Two studies jolted our comfy complacency to its core today. The first bolt hit the journal “Pediatrics,” where a new study concludes that exposing 4-year-olds to even small doses of SpongeBob SquarePants can suck the smarts out of their little noggins like an animated Dyson. Somewhere, Squidward Tentacles is saying a big fat I [...]

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Give dads their due 1

Dads matter. That ought to go without saying. But despite the hard work of pro-father groups, this odd idea persists that if moms are the bedrock of our nation’s families, dads are the shifting sand. At first glance, the numbers would seem to support that bias. Today, one child in three doesn’t live with a [...]

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What dads do 6

  Every dad may be different, but in some ways they’re all the same. Dads take care of you. They are there for you. They love you. And as 3-year-old Viv told me Friday: “They’re good for helping you grow.” You and I both know it’s important for kids to have strong male role models, [...]

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Massachusetts man accused of trying to swap baby for beers 2

CHICOPEE, Mass. (AP) — Authorities say a Massachusetts man offered to give his 3-month-old daughter to a maintenance man outside a gas station convenience store in exchange for a pair of 40-ounce beers. Chicopee police say 24-year-old Matthew Brace of Northampton made the offer on Monday. The maintenance man called police, who found Brace hiding [...]

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‘Unschooling’: A new parenting style?

It’s a new trend in “extreme parenting” — no tests, no homework, no formal education of any kind. It’s called “unschooling,” and for some families, it even extends into a completely unstructured home life, without chores or obligations of any kind.

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Father’s Day: Gay couples raise families of their own

IOWA CITY — Will Coghill-Behrends didn’t think he’d ever become a father. As a gay man he just didn’t think fatherhood would be part of his future.  “I think I knew that I wanted to be a parent before I met (my partner) Andy, I just assumed that, because I was gay, it wasn’t really [...]

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